Dating Advice

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 1

Appearance - Clothes and shoes

A women appreciates a man who looks good or at least tries to. Women take great care and effort of what they wear for different occasions and also take note of guys who do the same. Clothes is THE difference between dashing and ordinary. In addition, women do take note of shoes. It explains why they have a whole shoe rack full of shoes. Therefore, choose your shoes wisely too. Although different women have different taste in choice of clothes for men, it is generally acceptable to look neat and tidy. Here are some ways to achieve it.

1. Dressed Suitably

Formal wear are for formal occasions such as dinner in restaurants. T-shirts and jeans are for simple date at the mall. Shorts and singlets are for jogging in your nearby park and so on. You get the picture.

2. Iron your clothes

Its not a very good image to portray if your clothes are crumpled and you go out on a date. A woman will think that you are lazy and do not place any importance on the date.
3. Do NOT wear clothes with vulgarities, sexually suggestive images or words

We know that these clothes might be your favorite as it is very cheeky or portrays your style that you do not give a damn what's happening around. However, its a definite no no for dates as its rude, insensitive and too explicit for any potential girlfriends/wives to take it.

4. Go for well known , respected brands

We do not want you to show off. However, it is always nice to wear something that lets you get noticed by your date. If branded stuff is not your thing, at least get a simple respected brand that do not portray you as a cheapskate.

5. Ask another women for opinion

Lets face it. Man are pretty hopeless at fashion. That's why we hate shopping.(The clothes look the same anyway) To understand what is appropriate, what is nice on you, it is always good to get a female's opinion. After all, your date is another female and it is your date that is going to judge you on your date.

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 2

Appearance - General

Not every man is born tall dark and handsome. In fact most are not. However, by looking presentable, every man can still capture the attention of their date. Here are some tips to look nice and presentable.

1. Shave before going out

No women will like the look of a rough beard or moustache sticking out from your face. Although there are the odd few who finds it sexy, chances are its better to look clean shaven and tidy. It gives a better positive image of a person who cares about the date and who takes care of oneself.


2. Bathe often

It not our fault that men have larger sweat glands neither is it our fault that men enjoy sports that makes us soak in sweat. However, it could be our fault if we do not shower frequently. Every woman likes his man to smell nice and look clean. So if you're the type that sweat easily, be prepared to shower more, especially before meeting your date.

3. Get your cologne, aftershave out

Cologne and aftershaves are not for Gays. In fact, women find men who smell nice masculine. Just like bathing often, its also important to smell nice. After all, you do not want to spoil your first kiss with your date just because you smell awful.

4. Smile often

A smile helps to lessen the tension, projects a lively and positive image and best of all, a person always looks the best when you're smiling. We should always be smiling as we never know who is in love with your smile. Therefore practice smiling now if you are going out on a date soon!

5. Do not slouched

Slouching gives a bad impression of a person that is not confident, weak and no sense of security. Therefore, do what your mum always tell you. Stand straight and be proud of your height.

6. Try to look healthy

Get a tan if you look pale and sickly. Beef yourself up in the gym if you look scrawny. Go running if you're overweight and look fat. Its always important to look healthy and nice in front of your date. It projects a sunny image and women love it.

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 3

Confidence and Success

A confident man is a good looking man. Brad pitt can wear a skirt and yet look macho. However, confidence stems from success. Success in doing whatever you do impresses girls. Woman love a man who knows what they want and what they have done. The more difficult it is to achieve the success, the more impressed the girl. Here are some tips to show your confidence and success.

1. Know your goals

Women loves a man with direction. It gives them a sense of security. Even if you do not have much success in your goals, knowing your goals and letting her know that is the sign of a man who is clear and far sighted. Therefore, if you do not have goals up till now, its time to start thinking.

2. Be yourself

Everybody should be proud of themselves. It says a lot about your confidence. If you're a goofy character, just be one in front of her instead of trying to be somebody else. A women will love you for what your are and not what you try to be.

3. Take Risks, Break rules

Everybody admires risk taker. This includes women. A risk taker is seen as brave and charming as they are doing stuff ordinary people dare not do. This includes breaking conventional rules. It explains why bad boys often attract the best lookers out there.

4. Be knowledgeable

A knowledgeable man is seen as a confident man. A man who speaks wisdom with his every word is deem more successful then a man who craps a lot. So start ordering your newspapers and newsweek magazines now if you have not done so.

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 4

Behavior

There's a proper way to behave in front of ladies. It is never nice to let women see the rough side of you especially on your first date. Behavior shows your character and whether your relationship can carry on. It is a further step forward after first impressions.

1. Do be chivalrous

Its the 21st century. No doubt that men and women have equal rights. However, there's nothing wrong to continue showing chivalry to women. Opening doors, helping to carry shopping bags, sending her home are all basic courtesy that is on the decline. However, women still loved to be pampered and there's nothing wrong with that. Stick with the ancient code of being a gentleman and you'll never be wrong.

2. Do treat women with respect

Do not ever make sexist or insensitive comments about women. Do not swear and curse when at the waiters just because they give bad service. Listen when your date talks and talk when she stops talking. Treat her properly and chances are you'll leave a lasting impression.

3. Do maintain eye contact

Eye contact is very important to show that you're interested in whatever she's talking. Its extremely disgusting if your date is talking and you are distracted by the chick that just walked by. However, its also important not to stare at her especially if you've just met her as it gives the impression that you are a pervert that is following her every action.

4. Don't get drunk in front of her

Being able to hold your liquor well equates to being strong in front of your mates. However, it is directly the opposite with women. Women hate drunkards as they are rowdy, noisy and totally obnoxious. They are a complete turnoff. Therefore, if possible, drink less if you're out on a date. Best of all, don't drink.

5. Don't get touchy too quickly

When you touch a woman, it breaks down their self defense and they will only allow this when they feel totally at ease and attracted to you. Therefore, unless she touches you or you feel totally at ease with her and that she's attracted to you. Do not touch her too quickly as she might think you only want sex.

Dating Advice for Men Lesson 5

Conversation - what to say and take note

Its always important to say the right things and things that will impress. Its also tremendously important not to say stupid things which may offend your date. You also do not want to bore your date by talking about things she totally cannot relate to. These are some things that you can mention or should take note while striking a conversation.

1. Be open minded

Do not show extremism towards subjects that your date talks about. It might just be something that she cares a lot about. Do not make any crude remarks on anything she says for the same reason. You do not want to leave a bad impression so fast.

2. Talk about common topics

Its a very common tip but its one of the most difficult to master. Man will naturally like to talk about themselves and their interests. However, there's no harm in talking about something in which your date has a huge passion for and you find it boring. There is also no harm talking about hot topics that she might be interested in. If you really are clueless about what to talk to her about, do some research beforehand on what to say. Her friends and appearance are good resources to start from.

3. Compliment and talk about her dressing

As mentioned in Lesson #1, women take great care of their dressing and man should therefore take notice of what women wear and compliment them. However, compliment her casually as you do not want her to think that you're totally captivated by her. You can follow up on her dressing by asking where she bought it and how much it cost. It helps her to feel important.

4. Joke

The sure way to succeed is always humor as women relates witty guys to not boring. No women likes boring guys no matter how good the impression he makes. Jokes can liven the atmosphere and creates a good impression for you.


5. Don't talk about sports, politics or other male gender dominated topics unless she is interested in them too

Men love their sports. Sports competitiveness brings out the excitement and happiness of men. However, most women know nuts about sports. Its no use telling your date about Michael Jordon's glorious history when she is more interested in the cute boyish basketballer on the court. Therefore, unless you want to talk about how cute that basketballer is, steer clear of sports. The same rule applies for other male gender dominated topics.

6. Lastly, Listen

Its no coincidence that women talks much more then men per day. Women love to talk and let their opinions be known. Therefore, its important to listen and appreciate what she says instead of talking all the time. It makes your date feels important.

Dating Advice for Woman Lesson 1

Appearance

1. Dress Comfortably

Sure. ALl Men like to see women that are dressed in nice clothes showing some skin. However, that is the reason why women should not reaveal to much skin. Men are selfish. They like to see other women dress in various stages of undress and are genuinely embarrassed when their date is in too little clothes. Moreover, Man do not like to see women keep on tugging at their clothes to make sure they do not reveal too much. Elegant and comfortable wear is always a good gauge. By being comfortable with what you wear, you can also enjoy the night in peace rather then being worried in your dressing.

2. Dress appropriately

Some of us like to look the best whenever we're outside. Obviously, it is nautral that all women are vain by nature and men will be attracted by women who look good. Despite that, the plan can backfire when u try to do sports in long skirts, or attend a function in short skirts. Its always important to dress for the occasion and more important so when you're on a date.

3. Appropriate make up

Its important to put on some make up before going out on a date. However, you dont want to look ghastly in front of your date by applying too much make up or applying the wrong make up. Apply adequate make up for the occasion and you ll look fabulous. If you're one who absolutely hates make up and know nuts abt applying make up, just a simple lipstick will do.

4. Smell good

Men are attracted by their primitive senses. That includes the sense of smell. By smelling good, it helps to give a good impression especially on the first date. By creating an idendity using the smell you always used, your date can also remember you more distinctively. In addition, although women do not sweat as much as men and generally do not stink, it is also always hygienic to shower often. After all, your date would not want to kiss someone who haven't shower for days.

5. Stay in shape

For a long time, women are convinced men are after nothing but sex. Actually its the truth. A man loves a woman as much as he loves her body. A toned lean body is a definite turn on for men compared to one who isnt. Most women might not be born with great bodies. But by hitting the gym regularly, it helps to improve our bodies and make it more attractive. At the same time, its a bonus to be healthier too!